THE LOUD SOUND OF SILENCE

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 A few weeks ago I decided not to speak for the day. As someone who is known for chatting up most anyone at any time, it was an abrupt departure. Strangely, I found it easy not saying one, single word. However, the people around me were either worried, frustrated or confused. (With the exception of my husband, of course, who rather liked the idea.)  Fortunately I had written, “Vow of silence today,” on an index card and simply held it up.

 Still the questions came, “Have you lost your voice?” “Are you sick?” “Is something wrong?” “Is this part of your religious practice?” Questions, all of which I answered with a simple shake of my head.  It seems that my silence had somehow made me louder.

 While words connect us, superfluous talk is simply noise. Much of what we say or what others say to us is either unnecessary or mindlessly repetitious. Being silent, I was able to ‘hear’ so much more, from the rustle of leaves to another’s tone of voice. Even the patter of my dog’s feet was more distinct. It had to be for I could not call her.

 Yogis say that to live a full life one must be, ‘present in the moment.’ Doesn’t that mean that whether we are 12 or 92 we should embrace the age we are, not wanting to be years ahead or decades behind? If that acceptance really became the norm, wouldn’t it mean that we would respect others at every age? Wouldn’t that then mean that ‘old’ was as lovely a word as ‘young’?

 Holding your tongue leaves a silence that brings a peace of its’ own. It is the kind of peace I would wish on anyone at any age: a quiet acceptance of where one is at the moment. Next year, scientists will begin testing an anti-aging drug on humans. They say it will increase our lifespans to 120. I say, that’s nice, but how about enjoying the NOW of where we are? We won’t be this age– or even here– forever.

 

 

 

   

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5 thoughts on “THE LOUD SOUND OF SILENCE

  1. Nice column, however, how do you really know what age you are because chronology is really not an indication of one’s age. Many are older or younger than their chronological age. Also, silencing the mind is more effective than silencing the tongue, don’t you think? I enjoyed your thoughts., I have written something you might like and I hope you will check it out on WordPress. Warm Greetings, Tasha

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    • Well, I know how old I am because it’s printed loud and clear on my driver’s license. That said, you’re right about many being older or younger than their actual age. My point is to simply embrace whatever age you are. Frankly, as you well know, the actual number is superfluous and irrelevant. I will definitely read your work. Thanks for sharing.

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  2. Nice article. I have no problem being silent because I somewhat of a loner. If given the choice between reading a good book or being with other people, I would rather read a book. I know that a lot of people find me drinking beer alone Saturday nights. But is a choice I make I find drinking more pleasant if I immerse myself in my thoughts and in my silence.

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